Today I’ve been reflecting on what it means to be a DAD, especially as the Professor and I are about to embark on our own expedition into the world of parenthood. We have many different types of fathers in our lives – biological, adopted, step, in-law. Dads show us how the world works, rescue us when we when make mistakes or encounter an episode of bad luck, help us learn how to manage on our own, and most importantly they love us. Sometimes you have to find someone who can fulfill that role for you, or know when to find the strength to be your own dad.

I’m thankful for my dad, Bruce, for teaching me to appreciate ice cream, union suits, oatmeal, Neil Young & George Harrison. For the whole record collection. For showing me that pets are family, and to respect all wild animals. For walking me down the aisle. For the hummingbird skills, the invaluable help with HVAC and plumbing, and advice about home-ownership. For taking me turtle hunting, and driving me to orchestra rehearsal. For the artistry of making-do (or what my husband might call a proficiency in hillybilly-ness). For picking me up from college, when I just needed to come home. For his creativity in the kitchen and serving wild animals for dinner. For silly jokes and nicknames.

I’m thankful for my Papa Ray, who taught me how to sit back, take it easy, and a enjoy a beer! For the knack of collecting things (things that possibly could become useful later!) and collecting animals and plants. For my Tennessee roots.

I’m thankful to Cork for the knitting expertise.

I’m thankful for my father-in-law George, who is always there when we need him. For providing us with sound advice. For the many hours of guidance through home improvement projects. For making me feel like one of his own.

I’m thankful for my step-father Ed. For assisting us with any and all automotive issues. For being someone we can count on 24/7 – we know we can call him any time. And for taking care of my mom.

Tonight I’m raising a glass (of sparkling non-alcoholic apple cider!) in a toast to all the dads who walk with us down the path of life. To all the fathers out there who are doing their best. To my friends, the new generation of dads, who are redefining the role. To all the men (and women) in my life who have advised, nurtured, and taught me – uncles, aunts, professors, neighbors, and buddies included. THANK YOU! & Happy Fathers Day!